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Wanting ONLY experienced Lady

I've been in the lifestyle a very long time. But out of (practice) for a while though. Have experienced the Dominant side . But only the masochistic side a few times. I have very specific limits. I'm NOT into CBT at all. Don't bother me if you don't fit any of these statements.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildA few extra pounds
Height170 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyOther
Employment StatusRetired
Annual incomeup to $25,000

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchI know there is no such thing as a "perfect" match but I'd like to find someone who knows the in's and out's of the lifestyle. She should be very very experienced and has a good feel for what her subject is feeling. She should be willing to accept an unusual No. of limits also. Obviously if she's online here she has an open mind also.
Our first dateA simple get together somewhere mutually comfortable.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isMasochist
I am seekingA mentor / teacher
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasI have several in mind when I was a dominant. But I have just one of me as a Masochist. I had bet with someone and I lost, she got to hit me three times on the back with a Stiff wire brush. I didn't feel a thing.

Sexual Activities

Night life:Strip clubs, Dungeon clubs, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

Sex toys:Anal beads, Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating panties
"Off Limits":I'm considering being a switch, but I want to experience the Bottom side of the S/M world. Not interested in CBT or humiliation or any thing other than experiencing the pain side of S/M. But would consider sexual servitude though.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI don't have space here to write it all down. But I can visualize being bruised and beaten by being flogged or whipped. I can see it starting by a simple flogging which proceeds to a complete beatdown on my back . Then being being rewarded by giving the Dommes a good orgasm in anyway she wants. Note I think that the pain level can go as far as knife play or even beyond that.
Fantasy locationAirplane
Fantasy sex partner:I'm really pretty much a dominant.(Just want to try the bottom side of S/S and see where it leads), But my ideal submissive would be totally open to my ideas and willing to experiment. She would love sexual dominance , bondage and into sexual servitude. For instance if I want her to suck me while I'm driving I expect her to comply. If I come in the door and instantly want to fuck she should be willing to do so on the spot.

Femdom Preferences

I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
I like to wear:Casual straight wear
Ideal session:Being new to the masochistic side of the lifestyle this question can't really be answered.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:I guess my fantasy revolves around the journey not the arrival of my Limits.