I'm 6'0", 180 lbs, brown eyes, dark hair, with large features and a bit of a feline character. Mostly a sub, though I will switch when the rare mood strikes. I love having my shoulders flogged, and also like wax, nipple play, suspension, electroplay, sensory deprivation and more. My wife is 5'3", 105 lbs, and likes topping and sometimes subbing (she enjoys being bound, but not receiving more than mild pain). We're professional people. After a couple of recent play sessions, we've bound ourselves to each other and fucked that way, and really enjoyed it. We also really enjoyed ourselves at a play party in SF a few years ago, but haven't found anyone to play with here yet. We're looking for a domme/female top, or possibly a couple with a female top/male sub. Nothing serious; just fun. Discretion is a must. Intellect is a big turn on; we're both sincere nerds at heart.